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For Women: What To Do With A Man Who Fights And Argues With You Everyday?

By Cucan Pemo

Do you dread the evenings when you are alone together because you know all you are going to do is fight? Often times, couples bicker and argue over the smallest things in life, and it is all a part of getting to know each other, and surviving a relationship. Every day you find it is a constant battle over who didn’t put soap in the shower, or who is going to pick up the children from day care, or where the money is coming from to pay the gas bill this month. The small things you argue about everyday can be twisted to put a positive aspect on the relationship.

Think about what you are really fighting about

What are the real topics that you fight about? Are you arguing about small things in the home, that can be changed, or looked over – that are really down right insignificant when you think about it? When you find you argue about small things in life and in the home, it could be in your best interest to compromise and get passed these things for a healthy relationship. A man is going to feel a need to be the boss, to be in charge, and sometimes giving into the small things in life is going to put a positive twist on the entire relationship. The important thing to realize though, is to realize when enough is enough and a man is not always going to get his ‘way’.

Some small things in life are going to be in your best interest to get over, change and put behind you. For example, perhaps he argues with you every day about what type of bread you have in the house, or what type of soap you are using, or the type of perfume you use – change these things and put an end to the bickering as you focus on more important things in life. Sure, you love the green soap, while he loves the blue. One of the easiest things you can do in life is purchase both types of soap, so you have want you like, and he has what he likes all the time.

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The couple that never fights, and never argues, never grows to the next stage in a relationship

In a relationship, no matter if you are married or if you living together, is a relationship that will go through many stages of growth. The growing stages are going to include the times when you and your man will fight and argue.

This is a point where you will be testing the waters, to ‘see’ if you are compatible and if the two of your are going to be ‘able’ to make compromises to continue on in the relationship. While minor fights are going to be easy to over come the secret to over coming major fights, major battles in the relationship is this: don’t say anything you don’t mean – or that you can’t take back. Spiteful and hurtful words are going to stay with your relationship for years to come. Only say those things during a fight that you truly mean.

It will be difficult to get passed the arguing stages of your relationship but you can do it. Both you and your man will have to think about why you are arguing, and what the consequences are going to be if both of your don’t stop the constant arguing and bickering. The more you talk about subjects and things that matter to both of you, the closer the two of you will come in the relationship. If you were to never talk, and never communicate, the fighting and the bickering is going to get worse. Arguing is method of communicating needs and wants, for both you and your man. Without communicating, the arguing is going to continue.

Start by telling your husband just one thing a day

The one thing a day could be anything about your life, about the children, or about the world. As you learn to make conversations with your man, you will be teaching him the two of you have many things to learn and share. You don’t have to come right out and tell your man that you are going to share one thing a day with him, but just do it. As you become more comfortable talking to your man, and you find him easier to approach about subjects, this is going to open that door so he in turn is going to tell you things about his life, about what he needs and wants as well.

A relationship without communication and without talking to each other is just two people living together and existing together. Communicating is sharing your lives, sharing your dreams, your fears and your ‘wants’ for the relationship. Tell your man about a dream vacation, suggest that the two of your go and do something together, or perhaps you can tell your man about where you would hope to live someday – these are all topics used to ‘get to know’ each other all over again, and talking about them will help your relationship grow.

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Vivien Goldman: An interview with the Punk Professor

Wednesday, October 3, 2007 

Vivien Goldman recalls with a laugh the day in 1984 when she saw her death, but the laugh fades as she becomes lost in the memory. She was in Nigeria staying in Fela Kuti’s home; she had just arrived hours before and found people sleeping everywhere like house cats when Muhammadu Buhari’s army showed up to haul everyone to jail. Kuti was an opponent of the government who was in jail, and they came to arrest his coterie of supporters. They grabbed Goldman and were about to throw her in a truck until Pascal Imbert, Kuti’s manager, yelled out, “Leave her alone. She just arrived from Paris! She’s my wife! She knows nothing!

Goldman stops for a moment and then smiles plainly. “They thought I was just some stupid woman…. That time sexism worked in my favor.”

Vivien Goldman has become a living, teaching testimony of the golden era of punk and reggae. She is an adjunct professor at New York University who has taught courses on the music scene she was thrust in the middle of as a young public relations representative for Island Records. She writes a column for the BBC called “Ask the Punk Professor” where she extols the wisdom she gained as a confidant of Bob Marley; as the person who first put Flava Flav in video; as Chrissie Hynde’s former roommate; as the woman who worked with the The Clash, Sex Pistols, The Slits and The Raincoats.

As Wikinews reporter David Shankbone found out, Goldman is one of those individuals that when you sit in her presence you realize she simply can not tell you everything she knows or has seen, either to protect the living or to respect the dead.

DS: The first biography of Bob Marley, Soul Rebel, Natural Mystic, was written by you based upon your personal experiences with him, and you have recently written a book about Marley called The Book of Exodus. How difficult is it to continue to mine his life? Is it difficult to come up with new angles?

DS: You were there with Marley through that time when he really caught on; was it obvious to you then that there was something amazing and unique happening?

DS: Warhol’s Factory photographer, Billy Name, once told me he knew that what was going on was amazing, but he never thought Warhol would become the entire fabric of the art world as he is now.

DS: But Marley has become a fabric of sorts…

DS: How do you define punk?

DS: What is the commodified version of punk selling?

DS: That aesthetic is everywhere, as though if one spikes his hair he is punk.

DS: Your philosophy is that punk is not just musical, but also an aesthetic. That it can imbibe anything; that it stands for change and for changing a system. Let me give you a few names, and you to tell me how you think they are or are not punk. Britney Spears.

DS: Dick Cheney.

DS: Kanye West.

DS: Osama bin Laden.

DS: Is the definition of punk relative, then? He’s a Madrasah punk but not a Manhattan punk?

DS: Pete Doherty.

DS: If punk is about change, then why the maudlin sentimentality over the closing of CBGB’s, which at times turned into demonizing a homeless shelter?

DS: I felt it was what it was at a certain moment, but it wasn’t that anymore. They were charging eight dollars for a beer. That’s not very punk, and that wasn’t attracting the punk crowds. It was like people who move to the Bowery because they think it’s so edgy but it’s really a boulevard of glittering condos.

DS: Where do you think New York’s culture is going? There are so few places on Earth with such a large concentration of creatives who meet and influence each other, but the city is becoming less affordable and cleansed of any grit. Is there a place for punk in the Manhattan of the future?

DS: You’re friends with Flava Flav, right?

DS: At the time he wasn’t known?

DS: Do you think apathy is a problem today?

DS: What about G. G. Allin? He used to defecate on the stage to make a point.

DS: Well, he’s dead. Do you think people are afraid to speak out today?

DS: Is violence for the cause of social change punk?

DS: Sandra Bernhard once did an homage to what she called the Big-Tittied Bitches of Rock n’ Roll: Heart, Joan Jett, Stevie Nicks. She mourned that there were no big-tittied bitches left. Who are the big-tittied bitches of Rock n’ Roll today?

DS: Do you have moments of extreme self-doubt where you wonder if anything you do matters to anyone?

DS: You have worked for two corporations that are seen by many as the least punk in their respective communities, the BBC and NYU. How does one remain punk in such environments?

DS: Have you ever been in a situation where you feared for your life, where you thought, this may be the way I go?

DS: What happened to him in the secret jail?

DS: In Jamaica there was so much violence during the civil war.

Leading luxury businesses to form a joint venture

Tuesday, March 6, 2007 

Richemont and Polo Ralph Lauren decided to join their skills and rich experience in order to form a joint venture, the name of which is Polo Ralph Lauren Watch and Jewelry Company, S.A.R.L. The representatives of the global luxury business decided to unite their efforts in order to develop luxury timepieces and fine jewelry items.

After the new products are manufactured, they will be distributed through Ralph Lauren boutiques and independent retailers of jewelery items and luxury timepieces. The first jointly developed products are to appear in the fall of the following year.

Richemont and Polo Ralph Lauren will equally share 50 percent of the new joint venture. The partners hope for long-term cooperation. The union will be a completely new experience for both Richemont, which has never cooperated with a luxury fashion designer before, and Polo Ralph Lauren, which, until the present day, has not maintained any links with the precious jewelry and luxury watch businesses.

Ralph Lauren, holding the post of Polo Ralph Lauren’s Chairman and Chief Executive Officer , believes that the company’s experience in the area of designing and marketing luxury lifestyle products will blend with Richemont’s experience on a global scale.

Johann Rupert, owning the position of Richemont’s Executive Chairman counts on Ralph Lauren’s reputation and image based upon distinctive taste, style and attention to detail. He hopes that the newly formed joint venture will benefit from these factors, as well Richemont’s expertise in the area of jewelry and watches.

Making A Car Accident Compensation Claim And What You Should Expect

By Major Sherry

If you have been involved in an accident and you need to make a claim, then you need to know what to do. Being injured and making a car accident compensation claim are both a big deal and you need to know how to handle them properly. If you do not handle them properly, then you could end up worse off than just injured.

The Basics to Filing a Car Accident Compensation Claim

As long as you and the other driver are both insured, then it will be much easier to file your claim and deal with the things you need to. Make sure you get the information from the other driver. You will want their insurance information and you also want their personal information as well. If the police were called, then you want a copy of the police report as well.

If the accident was not your fault, then you will have some damages that the other party’s insurance company will have to pay for. This can include any medical treatment, rehabilitation, repairs to your vehicle, car rental, costs for emergency services, and any compensation for time you might miss at work.

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This is not something you should take lightly and you could have more money coming your way than you originally thought. Insurance is there to help make you whole again and this includes any physical issues, financial losses, and mental issues as well. If the driver was negligent or the vehicle was defective, then you may also have a claim for damages of the punitive type.

What to Expect if you Have to File a Car Accident Compensation Claim

If you have to file a car accident compensation claim, then you may want to get some legal advice as well. Having a trained attorney can help to protect you from a settlement or an offer that is not even close to what you are owed. Typically insurance companies will try to offer you a sum of money that seems like quite a bit to you, but is not as much as you are owed. Having an attorney can help protect your rights and keep this from happening.

These are typically called personal injury attorneys and if you hire one that is known for doing well, then you will get more money than if you hire an attorney that does not know what they are doing. You need an experienced personal injury attorney to help you with your case. The best part is that the attorney you choose will not ask you to pay them unless they win money for you.

The bottom line is that you do not have to deal with all the struggles of filing a car accident compensation claim because it was not your fault. This means that you have rights and you need an attorney to help make sure your rights are protected. You have damages coming to you and you need to be “made whole” again by the insurance company. Make sure you get compensated for all of your losses.

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Italy will give Libya US$5 billion as compensation for occupation

Sunday, August 31, 2008 

The government of Italy has agreed to pay Libya US$5 billion as compensation for its occupation of the country from 1911 to 1943. The agreement was reached between the Italian Prime Minister, Silvio Berlusconi, and Baghdadi Mahmudi, Berlusconi’s Libyan counterpart.

“It is a material and emotional recognition of the mistakes that our country has done to yours during the colonial era,” said Berlusconi after arriving in Libya. “This agreement opens the path to further cooperation.”

“The accord will provide for $200 million a year over the next 25 years through investments in infrastructure projects in Libya,” Berlusconi continued. “It is my duty, as a head of government, to express to you in the name of the Italian people our regret and apologies for the deep wounds that we have caused you.”

In return for providing compensation, Italy has asked that Libya attempts to reduce the number of immigrants illegally moving from Libya to Italy.

As a result of the deal, the Libyan government has named August 30 “Libyan-Italian Friendship Day”.

The deal has also made some people ask if the United Kingdom should provide compensation to Nigeria for it’s colonisation of the country.

Dr. Eyimofe Atake from the Senior Advocate of Nigeria commented on this issue: “To be able to answer that question, one needs to know exactly why compensation was paid and the circumstances in which compensation was paid. One needs to know the fact of the case between the Italians and the Libyans and how the issue for the payment of compensation arose. No two cases are necessarily similar, so in the absence of the facts and circumstances that led to the payment of compensation, it will be totally speculative to say if Nigeria could ask for compensation or be paid compensation by Britain.”

“In any event, under international law, Britain and Italy are separate and distinct states. They are sovereign states. Consequently, the British government is not bound by the acts of the Italian government. The decision of the Italian government is personal to them based on their peculiar circumstance and facts, which have nothing to do with the British government and the Nigerian government,” Atake continued.

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its progress.–KDP3 (talk) 00:11, 24 February 2010 (UTC)

I do wonder how they made it work under Sharia law?

I’m assuming it does comply with Sharia law, as they are restricted to representing women in specialized courts (i.e. no contact with men).

It’s very telling that this is actually considered news.

Zimbabwean footballer Adam Ndlovu dies in car accident aged 42

Sunday, December 16, 2012 

Former Zimbabwean professional footballer Adam Ndlovu has died in a car accident that also left his brother critically injured. Adam and his brother Peter, also a former professional footballer, were in the accident after failure of a tire on the BMW X5 Adam was reportedly driving. Reports also suggest an unidentified female passenger may have died in the accident.

George Bhebhe, a friend of Adam, spoke to The Zimbabwean about the circumstances of the accident. He said “Adam died early this morning when their vehicle veered off the road after a tyre burst and hit a tree 20 km from Victoria Falls. He died on arrival at hospital. Peter is in critical condition and he is at Victoria Falls hospital in Intensive Care Unit. But arrangements still being made to transfer from there to a hospital in Bulawayo or Harare”.

Both Adam and Peter played for the Zimbabwe national football team and Peter is their all time top goalscorer. During his career Peter played in the English Premier League and played for Coventry, Sheffield United, Birmingham, and Huddersfield. Sheffield United tweeted “Our thoughts are with former player Peter Ndlovu, who has been critically injured in a car accident in his native Zimbabwe. #sufc”

Adam formerly played for the Zimbabwean team Highlanders and at the time of his death coached Zimbabwe Premier League team Chicken Inn, based in Bulawayo.

Aquamarine: The Mermaid’s Stone

By Ellie Lewis

It does not matter if you are a fan of artisan jewelry or you have never even heard of the Sundance jewelry catalog, no matter who you are you may be enchanted by the seductive aquamarine. Its beautiful sea-blue or green color ranges quite a lot, and those stones which carry a darker tint are usually more valuable. These darker aquamarines are more difficult to find, as they are rare.

Those born in March are lucky to call the aquamarine their birthstone. According to tradition, this precious stone means many beneficial qualities for the wearer, including good luck, inspiration and knowledge. If the stones are given to the wearer as a gift, they are meant to create security and safety within a relationship. There is also a tradition of giving this stone as a gift on a couple’s 19th wedding anniversary.

There is a great deal of mythology associated with the aquamarine. This light-colored stone is reminiscent of clear, cool water and even its name comes from the Latin meaning ‘water of the sea.’ This sea water stone was once believed to have come directly from the treasure chests of mermaids. Because of this, sailors have always held the aquamarine in a place of high esteem; it was thought to bring luck to a sea voyage. Ancient sailors believed that the clear stone would create a safe voyage and prevent any sea sickness. To further its connection to the sea, the aquamarine is associated with the Roman sea god and planet Neptune.

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The people of the Middle Ages believed that the aquamarine had some kind of power to battle the negative effects of poison. The precious stone was also thought to increase one’s youthful vitality and intelligence, and it was held to be a suppressant for anxiety. Other ancient peoples believed that soaking this stone in water would lead to a cure for everything from hiccups to eye troubles. The aquamarine was also thought to serve as a means to communicate with otherworldly spirits; it was believed that if you held one in your mouth, you could ask the spirits for answers regarding life’s most intricate problems.

This stone was often fashioned into amulets to be worn around the neck, because the aquamarine was considered to serve as a protectorate for the throat. Even today those who believe in the healing powers of gemstones believe that the aquamarine is the great healer of the throat. A member of the beryl family like the emerald, the aquamarine can be mined in regions spread across the globe such as in Zambia, Kenya, Sri Lanka, Nigeria, Zambia, Pakistan, Afghanistan and Russia. The Santa Maria aquamarine called so because of the location from which it is mined in Brazil is known as having a rich blue color, and is among the most prized of these stones. Aquamarines are not as expensive as diamonds but they have certain hardiness to them leading the stone to sometimes be called the poor man’s diamond. This clear, bluish stone is damage-resistant and easy to clean.

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Diamonds: Anglo American to pay US$5.1 billion for 40% of De Beers

Friday, November 4, 2011 

Anglo American PLC has negotiated a price of US$5.1 billion to buy 40% of diamond giant De Beers from the Oppenheimer family. Anglo’s stake will jump from 45% to either 75% or 85%; the Botswanan government has an option to increase its own stake.

“This has been a momentous and difficult decision as my family has been in the diamond industry for more than 100 years and part of De Beers for over 80 years,” said De Beers chairman Nicky Oppenheimer. The Oppenheimers are selling their entire remaining stake in the company they took over in the 1920s. They retain 2% of Anglo, founded in 1917 by Sir Ernest Oppenheimer. Until Nicky’s resignation this year Anglo’s board has always featured an Oppenheimer.

As-of June De Beers assets totalled US$8.2 billion with US$1.2 billion pre-tax profit over the prior six months, compared to a US$863 million pre-tax profit last year. The firm owns two Canadian mines and one in South Africa, along with joint ownership with Botswana in two of the world’s biggest diamond mines.

Part of the sale deal promises the Oppenheimers will be given part of any value increase if the firm is floated within two years. Nonetheless, Anglo CEO Cynthia Carroll denied this means a flotation is planned. She also said there is no connection between the purchase, which is set to be finalised next year, and Chilean state-owned copper firm Coldeco’s recent major purchase of 49% of various Anglo property. The Oppenheimers receive 20% of any price increase if a float occurs within a year, and 10% if one happens the year after.

Left-side driving part of a planned Findlay, Ohio interchange reconfiguration

Tuesday, May 3, 2005 

The Ohio Department of Transportation (ODOT) has announced plans to rebuild the interchange of Interstate 75 (I-75) and U.S. Highway 224 (US 224) in northwestern Findlay, Ohio, signed as exit 159 on I-75. Plans for the interchange, a standard diamond interchange that also carries State Highway 15 on the west and south approaches, include reversing the flow of traffic on the bridge over I-75, in what is known as a “diverging diamond interchange”.

Such an interchange does not exist in the United States; ODOT based the plan on an interchange in Versailles, France of the same design, introduced to them by a report in a trade magazine. Instead of the standard approach, widening the four-lane bridge to add turn lanes, traffic flow will be reversed between the two sets of ramps, with traffic signals controlling the flow. The only conflicts will be between the two directions of US 224; all turns to and from the ramps will be free-flowing. Traffic will be guided by barriers and islands, preventing errors in movement. As it eliminates left turns across traffic, the accident rate at the interchange is expected to be cut in half. The plan will also be cheaper than a rebuild of the bridge, and will be able to carry more traffic.

Left-hand driving is very rare in the United States, but a few freeway-to-freeway interchanges incorporate it. In those cases, rather than being traffic-light controlled, the crossings between opposite directions are separated by bridges. Another related case is the Single Point Urban Interchange, in which opposing streams of left-turning traffic pass each other on the left.

The bridge, built in 1956, currently carries about 20,000 vehicles per day. The land west of the interchange, across from downtown Findlay, is being rapidly developed, and plans for the area include a Wal-Mart.

Mayor Tony Iriti of Findlay thinks “it’s a great idea. It’s amazing to me that this has never been done before. We’ll be written up in all those magazines nobody wants to read.” Hancock County officials are similarly enthusiastic.

The decision on whether to build the interchange will not be made until late summer.

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